IB/rdmavt: Use more efficient allowed_ops

QP creation already records the allowed_ops.

Take advantage of that single field to replace multiple qp_type
specific tests.

Reviewed-by: Michael J. Ruhl <michael.j.ruhl@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>