fuse: extend FUSE_SETXATTR request

Fuse client needs to send additional information to file server when it
calls SETXATTR(system.posix_acl_access), so add extra flags field to the
structure.

Signed-off-by: Vivek Goyal <vgoyal@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>