nvme-keyring: implement nvme_tls_psk_default()

Implement a function to select the preferred PSK for TLS.
A 'retained' PSK should be preferred over a 'generated' PSK,
and SHA-384 should be preferred to SHA-256.

Signed-off-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>