nvme: disable controller on reset state failure

If the controller is not in a RESETTING state at the point of reset
work, we have to conclude the controller is being deleted. Go to the
cleanup on this condition to ensure proper pairing of request_queue
quiesce state.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>