io_uring: enable io_mem_alloc/free to be used in other parts

commit edecf168 upstream.

In preparation for using these helpers, make them non-static and add
them to our internal header.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>