IB/srp: allow sg_tablesize to be set for each target

Different configurations of target software allow differing max sizes of
the command IU. Allowing this to be changed per-target allows all
targets on an initiator to get an optimal setting.

We deprecate srp_sg_tablesize and replace it with cmd_sg_entries in
preparation for allowing more indirect descriptors than can fit in the
IU.

Signed-off-by: David Dillow <dillowda@ornl.gov>