bcachefs: Fix excess transaction restarts in __bchfs_fallocate()

drop_locks_do() should not be used in a fastpath without first trying
the do in nonblocking mode - the unlock and relock will cause excessive
transaction restarts and potentially livelocking with other threads that
are contending for the same locks.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>