bpf: harden flags check in cgroup_storage_update_elem()

cgroup_storage_update_elem() shouldn't accept any flags
argument values except BPF_ANY and BPF_EXIST to guarantee
the backward compatibility, had a new flag value been added.

Fixes: de9cbbaa ("bpf: introduce cgroup storage maps")
Signed-off-by: Roman Gushchin <guro@fb.com>
Reported-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Cc: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>