xfs: factor common AIL item deletion code

Factor the common AIL deletion code that does all the wakeups into a
helper so we only have one copy of this somewhat tricky code to
interface with all the wakeups necessary when the LSN of the log
tail changes.

Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Allison Collins <allison.henderson@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>