[SCSI] iser: Modify iser to take a iscsi_endpoint struct in ep callouts and session setup

This hooks iser into the iscsi endpoint code. Previously it handled the
lookup and allocation. This has been made generic so bnx2i and iser can
share it. It also allows us to pass iser the leading conn's ep, so we
know the ib_deivce being used and can set it as the scsi_host's parent.
And that allows scsi-ml to set the dma_mask based on those values.

Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <michaelc@cs.wisc.edu>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@HansenPartnership.com>