md-cluster: use FORCEUNLOCK in lockres_free

For dlm_unlock, we need to pass flag to dlm_unlock as the
third parameter instead of set res->flags.

Also, DLM_LKF_FORCEUNLOCK is more suitable for dlm_unlock
since it works even the lock is on waiting or convert queue.

Acked-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Guoqing Jiang <gqjiang@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohua Li <shli@fb.com>