mac80211: support driver-based disconnect with reconnect hint

Support the driver indicating that a disconnection needs
to be performed, and pass through the reconnect hint in
this case.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Luca Coelho <luciano.coelho@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/iwlwifi.20201206145305.5c8dab7a22a0.I58459fdf6968b16c90cab9c574f0f04ca22b0c79@changeid
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>