nvme-rdma: move nvme cm status helper to .h file

This will enable the usage for nvme rdma target.
Also move from a lookup array to a switch statement.

Signed-off-by: Max Gurtovoy <maxg@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Parav Pandit <parav@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>