treewide: correct "differenciate" and "instanciate" typos

Also add these typos to spelling.txt so checkpatch.pl will look for them.

Link: http://lkml.kernel.org/r/88af06b9de34d870cb0afc46cfd24e0458be2575.1529471371.git.fthain@telegraphics.com.au
Signed-off-by: Finn Thain <fthain@telegraphics.com.au>
Cc: Masahiro Yamada <yamada.masahiro@socionext.com>
Cc: Joe Perches <joe@perches.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>