thunderbolt: Transition link to asymmetric only when both sides support it

We can transition Gen 4 link to asymmetric only when both sides of the
link support it in the required direction. For this reason make sure
that the downstream adapter also supports asymmetric link before
starting the transition.

Signed-off-by: Gil Fine <gil.fine@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mika Westerberg <mika.westerberg@linux.intel.com>