ionic: have ionic_qcq_disable decide on sending to hardware

Simplify the code a little by keeping the send_to_hw decision
inside of ionic_qcq_disable rather than in the callers.  Also,
add ENXIO to the decision expression.

Signed-off-by: Shannon Nelson <snelson@pensando.io>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>