block: add a bdev_stable_writes helper

Add a helper to check the stable writes flag based on the block_device
instead of having to poke into the block layer internal request_queue.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Chaitanya Kulkarni <kch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220415045258.199825-15-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>