net/sched: cls_flower: Reject duplicated rules also under skip_sw

Currently, duplicated rules are rejected only for skip_hw or "none",
hence allowing users to push duplicates into HW for no reason.

Use the flower tables to protect for that.

Signed-off-by: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Paul Blakey <paulb@mellanox.com>
Reported-by: Chris Mi <chrism@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>