net: Move {l,t,d}stats allocation to core and convert veth & vrf

Move {l,t,d}stats allocation to the core and let netdevs pick the stats
type they need. That way the driver doesn't have to bother with error
handling (allocation failure checking, making sure free happens in the
right spot, etc) - all happening in the core.

Co-developed-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Reviewed-by: Nikolay Aleksandrov <razor@blackwall.org>
Cc: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231114004220.6495-3-daniel@iogearbox.net


Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>