RDMA/hns: Add support for XRC on HIP09

The HIP09 supports XRC transport service, it greatly saves the number of
QPs required to connect all processes in a large cluster.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1614826558-35423-1-git-send-email-liweihang@huawei.com
Signed-off-by: Wenpeng Liang <liangwenpeng@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Weihang Li <liweihang@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>