selftests/bpf: bpf_setsockopt tests

This patch adds tests to exercise optnames that are allowed
in bpf_setsockopt().

Reviewed-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220817061847.4182339-1-kafai@fb.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>