libbpf: misc internal libbpf clean ups around log fixup

Normalize internal constants, field names, and comments related to log
fixup. Also add explicit `ext_idx` alias for relocation where relocation
is pointing to extern description for additional information.

No functional changes, just a clean up before subsequent additions.

Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230418002148.3255690-2-andrii@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>