RDMA/bnxt_re: Avoid the command wait if firmware is inactive

Add a check to avoid waiting if driver already detects a
FW timeout. Return success for resource destroy in case
the device is detached. Add helper function to map timeout
error code to success.

Signed-off-by: Kashyap Desai <kashyap.desai@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Selvin Xavier <selvin.xavier@broadcom.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1686308514-11996-7-git-send-email-selvin.xavier@broadcom.com
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>