selftests/bpf: Conform selftests/bpf Makefile output to libbpf and bpftool

Bring selftest/bpf's Makefile output to the same format used by libbpf and
bpftool: 2 spaces of padding on the left + 8-character left-aligned build step
identifier.

Also, hide feature detection output by default. Can be enabled back by setting
V=1.

Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andriin@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200113073143.1779940-4-andriin@fb.com