RDMA/hns: Add compatibility handling for only support userspace rq inline

The rq inline makes some changes as follows, Firstly, it is only used in
user space. Secondly, it should notify hardware in QP RTR status. Thirdly,
Add compatibility processing between different user space and kernel
space.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221224102201.3114536-3-xuhaoyue1@hisilicon.com


Signed-off-by: Luoyouming <luoyouming@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Haoyue Xu <xuhaoyue1@hisilicon.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>