e1000e: Fix incorrect ASPM locking

This patch fixes wrong locking usage.
In the context of slot reset, we should use lock.
And during resume, there is no need of lock.

Reported-by: Bjorn Helgaas <bhelgaas@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Raanan Avargil <raanan.avargil@intel.com>
Tested-by: Aaron Brown <aaron.f.brown@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>