net_sched: sch_fq: implement lockless fq_dump()

Instead of relying on RTNL, fq_dump() can use READ_ONCE()
annotations, paired with WRITE_ONCE() in fq_change()

v2: Addressed Simon feedback in V1: https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/20240416181915.GT2320920@kernel.org/

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>