ionic: only save the user set VF attributes

Report the current FW values for the VF attributes, but don't
save the FW values locally, only save the vf attributes that
are given to us from the user.  This allows us to replay user
data, and doesn't end up confusing things like "who set the
mac address".

Signed-off-by: Shannon Nelson <snelson@pensando.io>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>