nfsd: implement the xattr functions and en/decode logic

Implement the main entry points for the *XATTR operations.

Add functions to calculate the reply size for the user extended attribute
operations, and implement the XDR encode / decode logic for these
operations.

Add the user extended attributes operations to nfsd4_ops.

Signed-off-by: Frank van der Linden <fllinden@amazon.com>
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>