selinux: make better use of the nf_hook_state passed to the NF hooks

This patch builds on a previous SELinux/netfilter patch by Florian
Westphal and makes better use of the nf_hook_state variable passed
into the SELinux/netfilter hooks as well as a number of other small
cleanups in the related code.

Signed-off-by: Paul Moore <paul@paul-moore.com>