bpf: Factor out inc/dec of active flag into helpers.

Factor out local_inc/dec_return(&c->active) into helpers.
No functional changes.

Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Hou Tao <houtao1@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20230706033447.54696-6-alexei.starovoitov@gmail.com