net/tcp: Don't add key with non-matching VRF on connected sockets

If the connection was established, don't allow adding TCP-AO keys that
don't match the peer. Currently, there are checks for ip-address
matching, but L3 index check is missing. Add it to restrict userspace
shooting itself somewhere.

Yet, nothing restricts the CAP_NET_RAW user from trying to shoot
themselves by performing setsockopt(SO_BINDTODEVICE) or
setsockopt(SO_BINDTOIFINDEX) over an established TCP-AO connection.
So, this is just "minimum effort" to potentially save someone's
debugging time, rather than a full restriction on doing weird things.

Fixes: 248411b8

 ("net/tcp: Wire up l3index to TCP-AO")
Signed-off-by: Dmitry Safonov <dima@arista.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>