xfs: refactor quota expiration timer modification

Define explicit limits on the range of quota grace period expiration
timeouts and refactor the code that modifies the timeouts into helpers
that clamp the values appropriately.  Note that we'll refactor the
default grace period timer separately.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Allison Collins <allison.henderson@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>