netfilter: nf_conntrack_irc: Fix forged IP logic

Ensure the match happens in the right direction, previously the
destination used was the server, not the NAT host, as the comment
shows the code intended.

Additionally nf_nat_irc uses port 0 as a signal and there's no valid way
it can appear in a DCC message, so consider port 0 also forged.

Fixes: 869f37d8

 ("[NETFILTER]: nf_conntrack/nf_nat: add IRC helper port")
Signed-off-by: David Leadbeater <dgl@dgl.cx>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>