vfio/mlx5: Introduce vfio precopy ioctl implementation

vfio precopy ioctl returns an estimation of data available for
transferring from the device.

Whenever a user is using VFIO_MIG_GET_PRECOPY_INFO, track the current
state of the device, and if needed, append the dirty data to the
transfer FD data. This is done by saving a middle state.

As mlx5 runs the SAVE command asynchronously, make sure to query for
incremental data only once there is no active save command.
Running both in parallel, might end-up with a failure in the incremental
query command on un-tracked vhca.

Also, a middle state will be saved only after the previous state has
finished its SAVE command and has been fully transferred, this prevents
endless use resources.

Co-developed-by: Shay Drory <shayd@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Shay Drory <shayd@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Yishai Hadas <yishaih@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221206083438.37807-11-yishaih@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>