tun: implement flush flag for ndo_xdp_xmit

When passed the XDP_XMIT_FLUSH flag tun_xdp_xmit now performs the same
kind of socket wake up as in tun_xdp_flush(). The wake up code from
tun_xdp_flush is generalized and shared with tun_xdp_xmit.

Signed-off-by: Jesper Dangaard Brouer <brouer@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Song Liu <songliubraving@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>