cxl/hdm: Track next decoder to allocate

The CXL specification enforces that endpoint decoders are committed in
hw instance id order. In preparation for adding dynamic DPA allocation,
record the hw instance id in endpoint decoders, and enforce allocations
to occur in hw instance id order.

Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/165784328827.1758207.9627538529944559954.stgit@dwillia2-xfh.jf.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>