net/smc: Add connection counters for links

Add connection counters to the structure of the link.
Increase/decrease the counters as needed in the corresponding
routines.

Signed-off-by: Guvenc Gulce <guvenc@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>