l2tp: lock socket before checking flags in connect()

Socket flags aren't updated atomically, so the socket must be locked
while reading the SOCK_ZAPPED flag.

This issue exists for both l2tp_ip and l2tp_ip6. For IPv6, this patch
also brings error handling for __ip6_datagram_connect() failures.

Signed-off-by: Guillaume Nault <g.nault@alphalink.fr>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>