btrfs: zoned: defer advancing meta write pointer

We currently advance the meta_write_pointer in
btrfs_check_meta_write_pointer(). That makes it necessary to revert it
when locking the buffer failed. Instead, we can advance it just before
sending the buffer.

Also, this is necessary for the following commit. In the commit, it needs
to release the zoned_meta_io_lock to allow IOs to come in and wait for them
to fill the currently active block group. If we advance the
meta_write_pointer before locking the extent buffer, the following extent
buffer can pass the meta_write_pointer check, resulting in an unaligned
write failure.

Advancing the pointer is still thread-safe as the extent buffer is locked.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <johannes.thumshirn@wdc.com>
Signed-off-by: Naohiro Aota <naohiro.aota@wdc.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>