[SCSI] libsas: fix definition of wideport, include local sas address

To date libsas has only looked at the attached sas address when
determining the formation of wide ports.  The specification and some
hardware expects that phys with different addresses will not form a wide
port unless the local peer phys also match each other.  Introduce a flag
to select stricter behavior at sas_register_ha() time.  The flag can be
dropped once it is known that all libsas users expect the same behavior.

Current drivers just initialize this field to zero and get the
traditional behavior.

Reported-by: Patrick Thomson <patrick.s.thomson@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@suse.de>