Makefile: Use common code for DM_ETH deprecation warning

Update the CONFIG_DM_ETH check to use the 'deprecated' function.

Tested with snow

Old message:

===================== WARNING ======================
This board does not use CONFIG_DM_ETH (Driver Model
for Ethernet drivers). Please update the board to use
CONFIG_DM_ETH before the v2020.07 release. Failure to
update by the deadline may result in board removal.
See doc/driver-model/migration.rst for more info.
====================================================

New message:

===================== WARNING ======================
This board does not use CONFIG_DM_ETH (Driver Model
for Ethernet drivers). Please update the board to use
CONFIG_DM_ETH before the v2020.07 release. Failure to
update by the deadline may result in board removal.
See doc/driver-model/migration.rst for more info.
====================================================

Signed-off-by: Simon Glass <sjg@chromium.org>