event: Correct dependencies on the EVENT framework

The event framework is just that, a framework. Enabling it by itself
does nothing, so we shouldn't ask the user about it. Reword (and correct
typos) around this the option and help text. This also applies to
DM_EVENT, so reword as well.

With this, it's time to address the larger problems. When functionality
uses events, typically via EVENT_SPY, the appropriate framework then
must be select'd and NOT imply'd. As the functionality will cease to
work (and so, platforms will fail to boot) this is non-optional and
where select is appropriate. Audit the current users of EVENT_SPY to
have a more fine-grained approach to select'ing the framework where
used.

Cc: Simon Glass <sjg@chromium.org>
Reported-by: Oliver Graute <Oliver.Graute@kococonnector.com>
Reported-by: Francesco Dolcini <francesco.dolcini@toradex.com>
Fixes: 7fe32b34 ("event: Convert arch_cpu_init_dm() to use events")
Fixes: 42fdcebf ("event: Convert misc_init_f() to use events")
Signed-off-by: Tom Rini <trini@konsulko.com>