nvmet: add ns revalidation support

Add support for detecting capacity changes on nvmet blockdev and file
backed namespaces. This allows for emulating and testing online resizing
of nvme devices and filesystems on top.

Signed-off-by: Anthony Iliopoulos <ailiop@suse.com>
[chaitanya: Fix comments posted on V1]
Signed-off-by: Chaitanya Kulkarni <chaitanya.kulkarni@wdc.com>
[hch: reuse code a bit more]
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>