cxl: Move cxl_await_media_ready() to before capacity info retrieval

Move cxl_await_media_ready() to cxl_pci probe before driver starts issuing
IDENTIFY and retrieving memory device information to ensure that the
device is ready to provide the information. Allow cxl_pci_probe() to succeed
even if media is not ready. Cache the media failure in cxlds and don't ask
the device for any media information.

The rationale for proceeding in the !media_ready case is to allow for
mailbox operations to interrogate and/or remediate the device. After
media is repaired then rebinding the cxl_pci driver is expected to
restart the capacity scan.

Suggested-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Fixes: b39cb105

 ("cxl/mem: Register CXL memX devices")
Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/168445310026.3251520.8124296540679268206.stgit@djiang5-mobl3
[djbw: fixup cxl_test]
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>