vhost: disable for OABI

vhost is currently broken on the some ARM configs.

The reason is that the ring element addresses are passed between
components with different alignments assumptions. Thus, if
guest selects a pointer and host then gets and dereferences
it, then alignment assumed by the host's compiler might be
greater than the actual alignment of the pointer.
compiler on the host from assuming pointer is aligned.

This actually triggers on ARM with -mabi=apcs-gnu - which is a
deprecated configuration. With this OABI, compiler assumes that
all structures are 4 byte aligned - which is stronger than
virtio guarantees for available and used rings, which are
merely 2 bytes. Thus a guest without -mabi=apcs-gnu running
on top of host with -mabi=apcs-gnu will be broken.

The correct fix is to force alignment of structures - however
that is an intrusive fix that's best deferred until the next release.

We didn't previously support such ancient systems at all - this surfaced
after vdpa support prompted removing dependency of vhost on
VIRTULIZATION. So for now, let's just add something along the lines of

	depends on !ARM || AEABI

to the virtio Kconfig declaration, and add a comment that it has to do
with struct member alignment.

Note: we can't make VHOST and VHOST_RING themselves have
a dependency since these are selected. Add a new symbol for that.

We should be able to drop this dependency down the road.

Fixes: 20c384f1

 ("vhost: refine vhost and vringh kconfig")
Suggested-by: Ard Biesheuvel <ardb@kernel.org>
Suggested-by: Richard Earnshaw <Richard.Earnshaw@arm.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>