nbd: verify socket is supported during setup

nbd requires socket families to support the shutdown method so the nbd
recv workqueue can be woken up from its sock_recvmsg call. If the socket
does not support the callout we will leave recv works running or get hangs
later when the device or module is removed.

This adds a check during socket connection/reconnection to make sure the
socket being passed in supports the needed callout.

Reported-by:  <syzbot+24c12fa8d218ed26011a@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Fixes: e9e006f5

 ("nbd: fix max number of supported devs")
Tested-by: Richard W.M. Jones <rjones@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <mchristi@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>