nvme-tcp: Add TOS for tcp transport

TOS provide clients the ability to segregate traffic flows for
different type of data.
One of the TOS usage is bandwidth management which allows setting bandwidth
limits for QoS classes, e.g. 80% bandwidth to controllers at QoS class A
and 20% to controllers at QoS class B.

usage examples:
nvme connect --tos=0 --transport=tcp --traddr=10.0.1.1 --nqn=test-nvme

Signed-off-by: Israel Rukshin <israelr@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Max Gurtovoy <maxg@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>