be2net: use v1 of SET_FLOW_CONTROL command

In some configurations the FW doesn't allow changing flow control settings
of a link. Unless a v1 version of the SET_FLOW_CONTROL cmd is used, the FW
doesn't report an error to the driver.

Signed-off-by: Suresh Reddy <Suresh.Reddy@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: Sathya Perla <sathya.perla@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>