ice: Check for reset in progress during remove

The remove path does not currently check to see if a
reset is in progress before proceeding.  This can cause
a resource collision resulting in various types of errors.

Check for reset in progress and wait for a reasonable
amount of time before allowing the remove to progress.

Signed-off-by: Dave Ertman <david.m.ertman@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Anirudh Venkataramanan <anirudh.venkataramanan@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>